Debut Book release

Arousal Answered:

An Expert’s Guide to Authentic Pleasure and Liberating Sex

Let’s be real — most of us were taught about sex through fear, shame, and a whole lot of misinformation. Those outdated, oppressive messages didn’t just stay in your head — they settled into your body, shaping what you believe is possible for you.

It’s time to rewrite those narratives.

This book will help you rewire your brain and teach your body how to access real, meaningful pleasure — the kind that actually fits you, not some rigid, one-size-fits-none version of sexuality. Even if you don’t know what that looks like yet.

I bring you science, practical tools, and just enough “woo” to keep things interesting. This isn’t about fixing you — it’s about freeing you.

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About Kayna

I’m on a mission to help you live a fulfilled, authentic sex life

I didn’t just study this work as a professional — I lived it.

Sex was painful for me, and it wrecked my confidence in ways I never expected. As I became a sex therapist, somatic practitioner, and licensed marriage and family therapist, I realized something huge: healing isn’t just about better sex. It’s about reclaiming your connection to your body, your pleasure, and your power.

Talk therapy and doctor visits could only take me so far. The real transformation happened when I learned how to work with my body — to release old pain, reconnect with pleasure, and rewrite the story I’d been living in.

Now, it’s my life’s work to help others do the same. Because when you reconnect with your pleasure, it’s not just your sex life that gets better — it’s everything.

What People Have Said About Kayna

  • “Kayna’s approaches incorporate proven techniques and research-based information which, as a gynecologist and a leading researcher on pelvic pain, is important for me to know that what she offers is credible and scientifically supported."

    Dr. Andrea Rapkin, MD, Founder of Chronic Pelvic Pain and Vulvar Pain Program at UCLA

  • "Collaborating with Kayna on our mutual patients with pelvic pain and pelvic floor dysfunction has been an invaluable experience for myself and for our patients. She is extremely knowledgeable and she has helped me grow professionally.”

    Terry T. (UCLA Pelvic Floor Physical Therapist)

  • “The biggest thing for us was that Kayna helped us break down walls and really helped get us through some hurdles. I can't imagine how different things would have been for my wife and me if we hadn't seen Kayna."

    J.L. (via Yelp)

  • “Working with Kayna has changed my life … I feel that the changes I've experienced over these three months are sustainable and will last a lifetime.”

    N.K. (via Yelp)

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Your personal guide to rewriting sexual narratives for a happier body + more liberating sex.

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